Saturday, October 11, 2008

Dating Tips

Often guys wondered why some guy can get a girlfriend so easily. To tell you the truth, its not always about the money or the sport car. It's how you treat a girl. And again, this is all based on experience, observation and opinion from other people. Please take note also that each girl is different, but these are just some of the general tips to show that you care.
Tips on how to treat a girl the right way:
  1. Dress up neatly and iron your shirt, but not too smart just casual and don't tuck in your shirt (jeans, leather boots and collared t-shirt is just nice :-) ). Take care of your hygiene when going out with her.
  2. Make her feel special. Tell her she looks wonderful (and be sincere) and that you like her smiles. Give her compliment.
  3. Entertain her with jokes. Every girl likes a funny guy. No dirty joke, unless you want to scare her away. Dry and sarcastic joke should be avoided as well.
  4. Just be yourself, no need to pretend to be someone else you're not.
  5. Listen to her when she talks. Every girl likes to be the center of attention of every man. So pay attention when she talks to you. And don't interrupt unless ask to do so :-D.
  6. Speak little of yourself, ask more about her (the more the better). It will show that you really interested in her.
  7. Know what subject to talk about. Don't talk about serious subject that bores her (e.g. politic & religion should be avoided) and don't be too formal. Good topic to start with, should be about her. ALWAYS. Example, ask her which restaurant she often go to, what movie she likes, what does she do during weekend. Just a normal and casual conversation. No tension.
  8. When go out on a date with her, always ALWAYS pay for the bill. It shows that you're generous and not a cheapskate. No girls like a cheapskate guy for a boyfriend.
  9. Call her or text her after a date. Just to show that you care. No need to call or text until 100 times a day, that is too much and scary.
  10. If she doesn't response to you the first time, try again, she might try to test your patience or simply shy. If she's not interested, she won't answer your repeated call (and text) after the first date. If she response, you're 1 step closer.
  11. Never forget these occasions : her birthday & Valentine's day.
  12. Every girl likes to be given a surprise gift once in a while, and it doesn't have to be expensive. It's the thought that count (really :-D). A card expressing your feeling for her is also a good idea (Old fashion? Yes, but its sweet, I like :p).
I sure hope it works for you guys out there. Good luck!!! And if fail once, try again, never give up hope. There's love out there for everyone, go find it.

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